Dear Inactive?, well, this happened in my crazy Congo...
A single mum pioneer sister, the nicest person you would ever meet, was declared from the platform to no longer being a pioneer. Just that, Sister x is no longer a pioneer of Jehovah's Witnesses. Nothing else. Lots of people started to treat her very cooly. Yet, she continued to put in full pioneer hours, do cleaning duties, go to all meetings etc. I know.
Shortly after, an apparently unrelated event, an MS was announced he is no longer an MS, but also we were told to encourage those who are weak blah blah show extra love... etc. specifically designed so that we should show special love for this man. Very different to the way the pioneer sister was announced, yes?
Turns out the MS was a child molester, and the elders were essentiall covering this up, sick f***ers. If he hadn't been reported to the police by a non-JW whose child he molested he would never have been convicted.
Later, I find out one of the children he exposed himself to was the pioneer sister's daughter. My theory is they were discrediting her in advance, just in case she ever warned others about this evil man. I not saying this has any bearing at all on you or your daughter's experience, but I relate it just to show how a body of elders can suddenly turn on a completely innocent person.
Get out of this sicko org.